The purpose of this study is to look at the picture of emotion regulation in emerging adulthood with domestic violence experience. The sample study are 102 subjects in the stage of emerging adulthood developmental stage.. Data obtained through ERQ (Emotional Regulation Questionnaire) measurement tool. Result shows there are differences in expressive suppression emotional regulation strategies on subjects based on the prepetrators of violence. When viewed from the mean of expressive suppression emotional regulation strategies the most widely used by subjects who get violence from stepfathers (M= 21,17).